Judging by tomorrow night's itenerary, my cookies will not only be unnecessary, but they might be somewhat unwelcomed as well. It is sounding like everything is going to be catered, and there is a strict schedule for things to be served. I would hate to impose...I might feel a little like a housewifery failure by not bringing anything, but I think it would be best if I did not. Besides, the office is having a potluck next Friday, so I will bake the cookies for that.
Walter read the address of the party tomorrow night, and it is in a very...rich...part of town. Walter and I grew up poor and still live quite modestly. I have never been to a "dinner party," you know the type, and I am a bit nervous that I won't behave properly. I am also, at twenty, significantly younger than a number of the others who will be in attendance (at least by three years, as I know Walter is one of the youngest in the company). I have never had particular issues making conversation with people older than me (in fact, I have more problems with my own peers), but what if I do something to embarrass us? Oh, I will allow my anxiety to eat me alive tonight and tomorrow, until it is time for the party and everything goes smoothly and my fears are unwarranted (as usual)...
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I think the best thing to do in a case like this is be yourself. Don't discuss politics or religion. If ur uncertain of the 'what fork to eat with' situation, always start with the cutler on the outside and work you way in. Definitely DONT bring anything, if it is the type of party it sounds like, it would be odd, so perhaps u could simply show ur prowess in cooking by complementing the hostess on the food (tho she did not make it) and perhaps say, I have had good luck with making (if u made anything that they are seving before). I am not sure how 'fancy' this will be, if it were a more informal catered affair u could always bring wine, but if more formal, the wine will have been selected for each course already. I think it is best to show up empty handed and smiling. Stick to basic topics and always think "I am trying to make the person I am speaking to happy or enjoy what I am talking about" that usually helps the ole' 'foot in the mouth'. After u get a few under your belt u will be fine. Be relaxed at dinner, don't seem like ur 'tie is on too tight' but remember things like napkin on lap, wipe ur mouth BEFORE u drink from a glass (no icky mouth or finger prints) etc. IF bread is served, break off a piece that will fit into your mouth and ONLY butter that bit and pop it in, don't spread ur butter allover ur whole piece like ur making sandwiches. I think that is a good amount of basics. and above all, HAVE FUN!
Agh, so many things to remember! I am thinking it will not be quite so fancy as that, as it is just a bunch of computer programmers, but if it turns out as such, I'll be prepared! Thanks!
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